Go Coach Yourself!
Welcome to Go Coach Yourself!, a podcast to help you get unf*cked and build the incredible life you deserve. We’re Vic and Ryan, two certified coaches trying to change the world one conversation at a time.
In our respective practices, we’ve noticed common experiences or themes that come up again and again with clients. We started Go Coach Yourself to share our thoughts, experiences and tips with more people, giving you tools you can use to navigate your own way through any of the topics we cover. Through these examples and deep dives on coaching topics we hope you’ll gain a greater understanding of what working with a coach can involve. We believe everyone deserves to have a coach in their team, so whether you’re still exploring to find the right coach for you or you are ready to get started, we’re excited to give you an inside look at how two coaches see the world. We’re going to have a ton of fun along the way, and welcome you to join us on this journey!
About Vic Smith, CPCC
Go Coach Yourself!
Get Unf*cked: You Are Not a Problem to Fix
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Somewhere along the way, many of us learned to interpret discomfort, confusion, or lack of momentum as proof that something is wrong with us.
In this episode, Ryan and Vic challenge that assumption.
They unpack what it really means to get unfcked* — not by fixing yourself, but by recognizing when you’re simply under-resourced, not broken.
Together, they explore three core elements that are often missing when life starts to feel heavy or stuck:
- Clarity – not certainty or a 10-year plan, but orientation
- Direction – movement without needing to feel “ready”
- Autonomy – the right to want what you want without justification
You’ll hear personal stories, coaching reflections, and practical reframes to help you stop diagnosing yourself as the problem — and start asking better questions about what’s actually missing.
In this episode:
- Why confusion and discomfort are not character flaws
- How the “fix yourself” mindset quietly runs the self-help industry
- The difference between being broken and being under-resourced
- Why motivation follows action (not the other way around)
- What autonomy really costs — and why it’s worth it
Reflection questions from the episode:
- What are you assuming is a personal flaw that might actually be a missing input?
- If you didn’t need to be sure, what would you try?
- Where are you living someone else’s version of “enough”?
- If you assumed you weren’t broken, what would you stop apologizing for?
Key takeaway:
You don’t need fixing.
You need support, space, and permission to listen to yourself.
Hosts:
Ryan Reichert-Estes, StackRise Coaching | LinkedIn | Insta: @stackrisecoaching
Vic Smith, WhistleSmith.co | LinkedIn | Insta: @vic_bk
